There is a category of people whom I in the most natural way... avoid. For myself, I define them as kitchen or culinary blackmailers.
Most often, these people do not like and do not know how to cook, respectively. For them, cooking is almost the most disgusting duty. However, they are in no hurry to abandon it, because power over the stove and pans simultaneously gives them power - or a semblance of power - over those around them.
Well, like power... The ability to engage in a kind of a kind of blackmail. At first, not over everyone around them, but only over their family, but this is enough for them.
The blackmail goes something like this:
- Why doesn't anyone eat soup! - Optional, of course, it may not be soup - If you don't sit down to eat right now, I won't cook anymore in my life! I'm not going to the kitchen again! I’m trying for you, but you don’t eat! Nobody appreciates me in this house and nobody respects me! They spit on my work from the high bell tower!
As a result, even if the dish is categorically inedible, the pets sit and, with dreary faces, push the food into themselves spoon after spoon. Because they need to prove to the blackmailer that they are not radishes at all, do not respect kinship, do not love loved ones.
And the blackmailer at this time, knowing full well that his creation has a "not very good" taste, enjoys his power.
The funniest thing is that such people, if no one succeeds in oholoning them, gradually lose their shores and begin to engage in such blackmail literally on an industrial scale.
Not only on their home, but also on those around them. In my opinion, such blackmail gives them some incomparable pleasure.
By the way, the "hospitable" and "hospitable" hosts, who throw themselves at the guest with a seemingly affectionate one:
- You should definitely try it! Well, eat! So what if you don't eat these foods! Everything is fresh and good with us. Don't eat, they haven't tasted ours. Well, eat a spoon again, because I tried so hard / 'tried, do you really want to offend me (offend) - from the same opera.
It is important for them not to feed, as they sometimes think. It is important for them to make them eat. These are different things, as for me.
Collided?