Do what you need YOUAnd not someone - this is important, but not a simple rule. You have YOU.
So the tale mode "HRP». It will be a little long, but it is, be patient, it's worth it.
All my life I was (and is) romantic kind. I've always liked those kinds of little notes, bells middle of the night, surprises (within reason) Hotya..inogda can not create a reasonable 👇👇👇
And then under soroket (or rather more), I found a man. I, as an ordinary "girl" trying to tell him at our meetings: I lived for the day, what and how much bought, where went that ate and drank as Tama my colleagues, what's new in the world that I made once raz..v general, a standard set of family chatter. At first he listened to me. And then at some point, when I, once again, beginning with the words: "Can you imagine, my colleagues ..." he looked at me, puzzled and asked: "And to me why this information? "I was taken aback at first, then... And then she began to think: but really, why should he, and I need this information?
No, of course, there are issues that we are discussing and often enough repeating. But at that moment, when he told me what he had infa and added: HRP, I began to reconsider its position towards the information slag.
To begin with - I just reviewed as unnecessary infy drags my head!!!
Further more. Of course, I told him about my life (I must say that for me, he knows almost everything, but I'm on it - so many people do not know and, by the way, it's me and it attracts. It is like that: unread book. He is not particularly talks about his family: I know that he has a mother, sister and a thoroughbred, that no father for many years and vsoooo) When I tried to ask him about it, he simply replied: Yes! What do you need this information for? Here is a well - Here and now? Why dig up the past or guessing the future. Also logically.
I almost stopped watching the news (again thanks to his example). I used to have a TV set in the kitchen (and there I spend most of the time: cooking (see recipes), working at the computer) was always included on any center channel. Here he comes and says, why do you watch the news, which is 90% composed of negativity? Me: "Yes, I do not look particularly background so just eat and everything." He said: "No, this is not the background, your brain, regardless of you absorb all this dross and negativity." And this is also true.
Now for the HRP in other situations. I have two years ago could have to cry for any reason: stress, sad movies, someone died (novosti..novosti ..), tired, did not call / do not write... .. Now I somehow easier to relate to all of this. Stress? Yes HRPThis is just my emotions at the moment, you need to go, mentally clear my head from the negative, sleep with it, and in the morning everything will be - different. Sad movie? So, as I look at it at all guys, if it is sad... Someone died? it only a situation which does It does not depend on me and from my emotions (and you will cry, you will in the morning as Yakutia) Tired? So, eprst, dial a bath and porelaksiruy, and even better - in the gym). I do not call / do not write? So, if you want to communicate - call, write itself. It's simple.
The basic idea, I, I think, has formulated. And then - often say to yourself "HRP" and you will see that it really works))) If you think that the name is - rough, then again say: HRP)) All good))) 🙌🙌🙌
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